Why It Matters
Making friends at Divertical is just the start. Expanding connections outside events helps friendships grow deeper and gives you more opportunities to share activities and interests. Doing this safely and respectfully is key to keeping relationships positive.
Keep in Touch Safely
- Start small: a casual message, reply to a post, or a short online chat.
- Respect everyone’s pace—some people respond quickly, some slowly.
- Keep conversations light at first: share interests, hobbies, or favorite shows.
- Don’t pressure anyone to respond immediately or to spend more time online than they want.
Plan Meetups Carefully
- Choose public, low-pressure spaces: coffee shops, parks, libraries, or group events.
- Let a friend or family member know where you’re going, just in case.
- Agree on the plan beforehand: location, activity, start time, and how long you’ll stay.
- Start with short meetups and gradually spend more time together as comfort grows.
Examples:
- A walk in a park after a Divertical meetup.
- Attending a local hobby or gaming group together.
- Meeting at a small café to chat for 30–60 minutes.
Expand Gradually
- Don’t try to become best friends with everyone at once.
- Focus on shared interests—projects, hobbies, or events you both enjoy.
- Join online or local groups related to your interests: art clubs, gaming communities, or local volunteer groups.
- Gradual connection reduces stress and helps friendships feel natural.
Respect Boundaries
- Always ask before:
- Visiting someone’s home
- Sharing personal information
- Inviting them to an event or trip
- Notice non-verbal cues or hesitation—they often indicate comfort levels.
- Patience is essential. Friendships grow stronger when everyone feels safe and respected.
Mix Digital & In-Person Connections
- Combine online and in-person interaction:
- Use video calls or chat before meeting in person.
- Continue sharing updates or hobbies online to stay connected between meetups.
- Check in about comfort levels frequently. Communication ensures both parties feel respected and safe.
Safety Tips
- Trust your instincts: pause or step back if something feels off.
- Keep a trusted person informed when meeting new friends outside events.
- Protect sensitive personal information until you trust someone.
- Always have a backup plan: know exit routes for in-person meetups or pause conversations online if needed.
Key Takeaway: Expanding friendships outside Divertical is exciting and rewarding. Take your time, plan carefully, respect boundaries, and focus on meaningful connections. Friendships that grow safely tend to be stronger, longer-lasting, and more enjoyable.
