Making Friends Safely Online

Why Online Safety Matters

Meeting people online can be fun and convenient, but it’s important to take steps to stay safe and respect boundaries. Safe online interactions help friendships grow without stress or discomfort.

Start Slow

  • Take time before sharing personal information or adding someone to multiple platforms.
  • Stick to platforms you feel comfortable using—Discord, social media, or messaging apps.
  • It’s okay to observe interactions first before actively participating.

Protect Personal Info

  • Avoid sharing addresses, phone numbers, or sensitive details until you know someone well.
  • Gradually share information as trust builds.
  • Use privacy settings and controls on social platforms.

Respect Comfort Levels

  • Everyone checks messages differently—don’t expect immediate replies.
  • Ask before sending private messages, tagging in photos, or inviting to new platforms.
  • It’s okay to pause conversations if you need a break or feel overwhelmed.

Set Guidelines Together

  • Discuss what topics feel comfortable to talk about and how often you’ll chat.
  • Clarifying expectations reduces misunderstandings and keeps interactions friendly.

Recognize Red Flags

  • If someone is pushy, invasive, or makes you uncomfortable, step back.
  • Use moderation or blocking tools on platforms if necessary.
  • Reach out to Divertical staff if online interactions feel unsafe.